Boys can cope with rejection
I recently came across many topics and threads that discuss the notion of how men or boys in this instance cannot deal with rejection. In this part, I will dissect why they are beta males and cannot handle emotion.
Alpha males have little or no interest in females because they are too ambitious, charismatic, or quite busy with their own lives. They are able to see through the cornerstone to why giving attention to female is purely waste of time, money, and effort. Do you think that Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk chasing down women? No, because they simply understand their value and let their hypergamy doing the talk.
The article outlines the substrata of men that dangerously attack women. In this instance, we must ensure that women are protected via law- which means to file a restraining order. This can be done simply with enough evidence of police and taking the rightful approach without understanding the . We must punish men, who exploit sex as leveraging power. There is no debate about this issue at hand.
The article quotes, “If rejection stands to threaten a man’s self-perceived social identity, he may compensate by over-demonstrating his masculinity. Dubbed “masculine discrepancy stress,” CDC researchers reported that men who become stressed because they perceive themselves as less masculine are more prone to violent behavior. Another study found that men who react violently to rejection tend to be less supportive of women’s rights.” This is simply because from Day 1, men are taught that a women completes them- which is a false notion. A man only completes himself, through his legacy. In many religious texts, Adam was self-isolated and needed Eve to complete him, so God made him out of the rib. These dangerous perplexities give no solution to young men, who should find it okay to go their own way. In no way or shape, their notion of reproduction is an impediment in towards their legacy. A fallacy made in Disney romanticism to force men that made achieved success that they still lack something in their life if they do not have a family.There is nothing wrong with being rejected by a female because life is all about peaks and valleys. Somehow, we have failed to teach that to men.
Another issue is that we sell the Disney Romance theme, combined with other issues. In a recent Frozen story line, the guy who is scared to be alone, doesn’t want to have to work to find another girlfriend, etc.. Most young guys just can’t let go. They do everything “right” in terms of being kind, and loving, but the young woman just wants to separate and these guys feel they are losing everything. Do girls not understand that? Imagine investing your career, health, and time in a woman only to feel that they are never will be good enough.
Young men are constantly told they should treat young women “right,” contrary to popular belief and basically not use them for sex. Well young women do the same thing, and when they hook one of these quick to commit, relationship-oriented guys who are ready to settle quick in life. This can be brutal once she decides she is done and wants to move on or “have fun”. 90% of guys who are “players” are because they are deeply hurt and never got over their first love because they were classy guys to begin with. This is not justifying their behavior, but just outlining the common root cause in a society where getting mental therapy is considered to be “not manly.”
Lastly, boys lash out because rejection never owes them apology. Some women like to hint for what they want. Instead of risking rejection themselves and being straightforward. Many women still do this, hinting that they want their guy to do something, trying to “test” him, which is another female tactic. Some females love the attention of these fixed individuals, while really chasing those alpha men that will eventually break them. Simple men are naive to these behaviors because they are oblivious to find the true love with that particular female without understanding the consequences. Keep in mind these men are not hypergamous, and often get hurt.
This article is also not to open to deflection with a common theme of “Who hurt you?”-another female tactic that is utilized to gaslight men. Simply put, men have learned and understood that at times they will be never good enough and move on with reality. There is no easy fix coping with rejection for boys in a hyper-competitive and ambitious world. However, I hope this article opens eyes to the social dynamics between men and women in an intimate setting.
